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How to Give Positive Feedback

What did you do the last time you saw a colleague do something remarkable? Did you think, “Wow, that’s awesome,” and go about your day? Did you toss off a...

What happens when someone comes to you to complain about one of your team members? Should you pass on feedback or ask the person to give the message directly?

Passing on Feedback for Someone Else

One of the most precarious situations you can get in as a manager is when someone comes to you with feedback about one of your team members and asks you...
One of the main reasons we don't give constructive feedback is because we fear an ugly reaction. Don't fear it, expect it!

How to Cope with Backlash to Your Feedback

I facilitated a workshop this week that has given me lots of juicy fodder for discussion here with you. The session focused on uncomfortable discussions, including considerable time on how...
There are tips you can use to make sure you receive feedback in a way that helps you succeed and strengthens your relationships

How to Receive Feedback

I gave a speech last week on the importance of feedback to a high performance organization. It was clear that many of the audience members were uncomfortable with the thought...
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How to Give Feedback to Someone Who Doesn’t Report to You

Most of the companies I have worked with have, at some point, stuck the word “one” in front of their company name and heralded it as a great new era....
one person giving feedback to another, who looks stressed

Unconventional Wisdom on Constructive Feedback

In my previous post , I talked about emotional reactions to issues at work; specifically, things that make people cry.  In that post, I alluded to the idea that advanced...
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Virtual Teams and How to Give Feedback from Afar

Every time I give a speech these days, I get at least a couple of questions about how my techniques apply to virtual teams . Given that my team at...
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How to Accept Positive Feedback

Positive feedback is rare and precious and you need to make sure you treat it as such. It’s rare because we tend to take good behavior for granted. There are...
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How to Take Constructive Feedback

Feedback is a gift .” How many times have you heard that little gem?  I don’t know about you, but I’ve noticed that not many people ask for feedback...
Feedback isn't easy to hear - but it can be just as hard to give. Here's how to do it effectively.

How to Deliver Feedback

Giving someone feedback can be uncomfortable. Some people even agonize over how (and if)  they should share a difficult message with a teammate or a direct report.  Unfortunately, that discomfort...
person selecting 'excellent' on a rating survey

How Honest Should You Be on 360 Feedback?

So you've been invited to provide feedback to a colleague as part of a 360 feedback process. How honest should you be? Can’t I just soft pedal it, Liane? Can’t...

For Managers

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Don’t Include Feedback in Year-End Reviews

This is probably an unpopular opinion, but a performance evaluation conversation is no place for feedback. The end of the performance management cycle is the time to sum up the...
Team clapping for a colleague

How to Give Positive Feedback

What did you do the last time you saw a colleague do something remarkable? Did you think, “Wow, that’s awesome,” and go about your day? Did you toss off a...

Two employees talking in a casual environment

Exercise: Giving Feedback Gently

Occasionally, I focus the blog on sharing the techniques I use to facilitate important conversations among individuals and teams. I inherited this one and I love it so much, I’m...
What happens when someone comes to you to complain about one of your team members? Should you pass on feedback or ask the person to give the message directly?

Passing on Feedback for Someone Else

One of the most precarious situations you can get in as a manager is when someone comes to you with feedback about one of your team members and asks you...
One of the main reasons we don't give constructive feedback is because we fear an ugly reaction. Don't fear it, expect it!

How to Cope with Backlash to Your Feedback

I facilitated a workshop this week that has given me lots of juicy fodder for discussion here with you. The session focused on uncomfortable discussions, including considerable time on how...
Feedback can create defensiveness and reduce the chances that someone will change for the better. Next time, try the feedforward technique to get them to take ownership for their own development.

Feedforward Instead of Feedback

A couple of years ago, Craig and I were at an industry event and heard Dr. Jamie Gruman talk about Feedforward Interviewing, a technique developed by Avraham Kluger and Dina...
Feedback can cause unpleasant reactions - here's how to handle them

When Feedback Causes Backlash

I love the questions I get at the end of a keynote. This week I got a couple of really good ones. The first was, “How do I handle it...
Person having difficult conversation that other person doesn't want to hear

Maybe You Shouldn’t Give Feedback

I have a new speech that I’m working on called “The New Nice.” It’s the culmination of all my work on increasing productive conflict and getting comfortable being uncomfortable. One...
Two people standing face to face talking

How to Give Feedback to Someone Who Doesn’t Report to You

Most of the companies I have worked with have, at some point, stuck the word “one” in front of their company name and heralded it as a great new era....
one person giving feedback to another, who looks stressed

Unconventional Wisdom on Constructive Feedback

In my previous post , I talked about emotional reactions to issues at work; specifically, things that make people cry.  In that post, I alluded to the idea that advanced...
person talking on the phone

Virtual Teams and How to Give Feedback from Afar

Every time I give a speech these days, I get at least a couple of questions about how my techniques apply to virtual teams . Given that my team at...
Feedback isn't easy to hear - but it can be just as hard to give. Here's how to do it effectively.

How to Deliver Feedback

Giving someone feedback can be uncomfortable. Some people even agonize over how (and if)  they should share a difficult message with a teammate or a direct report.  Unfortunately, that discomfort...
person selecting 'excellent' on a rating survey

How Honest Should You Be on 360 Feedback?

So you've been invited to provide feedback to a colleague as part of a 360 feedback process. How honest should you be? Can’t I just soft pedal it, Liane? Can’t...

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For Coaches

Team clapping for a colleague

How to Give Positive Feedback

What did you do the last time you saw a colleague do something remarkable? Did you think, “Wow, that’s awesome,” and go about your day? Did you toss off a...

Two employees talking in a casual environment

Exercise: Giving Feedback Gently

Occasionally, I focus the blog on sharing the techniques I use to facilitate important conversations among individuals and teams. I inherited this one and I love it so much, I’m...
Feedback can create defensiveness and reduce the chances that someone will change for the better. Next time, try the feedforward technique to get them to take ownership for their own development.

Feedforward Instead of Feedback

A couple of years ago, Craig and I were at an industry event and heard Dr. Jamie Gruman talk about Feedforward Interviewing, a technique developed by Avraham Kluger and Dina...
There are tips you can use to make sure you receive feedback in a way that helps you succeed and strengthens your relationships

How to Receive Feedback

I gave a speech last week on the importance of feedback to a high performance organization. It was clear that many of the audience members were uncomfortable with the thought...
Feedback can cause unpleasant reactions - here's how to handle them

When Feedback Causes Backlash

I love the questions I get at the end of a keynote. This week I got a couple of really good ones. The first was, “How do I handle it...
Feedback isn't easy to hear - but it can be just as hard to give. Here's how to do it effectively.

How to Deliver Feedback

Giving someone feedback can be uncomfortable. Some people even agonize over how (and if)  they should share a difficult message with a teammate or a direct report.  Unfortunately, that discomfort...